God is a Family. Unamuno, Life 8.15

Unamuno continues explaining his understanding of the Virgin Mary and the Trinity. The Virgin, for him, is our Divine Mother, and the Trinity is fundamentally a vessel for holding our impression that God must be human & personal. Each human, it turns out, is properly a society: here Unamuno agrees with Walt Whitman, as well as cellular biologists. So a personal, human God must be society, as well.


En uno de mis libros (Vida de Don Quijote y Sancho, segunda parte, cap. LXVII) he dicho que «Dios era y es en nuestras mentes masculino. Su modo de juzgar y condenar a los hombres, modo de varón, no de persona humana por encima de sexo; modo de Padre. Y para compensarlo hacía falta la Madre, la Madre que perdona siempre, la Madre que abre siempre los brazos al hijo cuando huye éste de la mano levantada o del ceño fruncido del irritado padre; la madre en cuyo regazo se busca como consuelo una oscura remembranza de aquella tibia paz de la inconsciencia que dentro de él fué el alba que precedió a nuestro nacimiento y un dejo de aquella dulce leche que embalsamó nuestros sueños de inocencia; la madre que no conoce más justicia que el perdón ni más ley que el amor. Nuestra pobre e imperfecta concepción de un Dios con largas barbas y voz de trueno, de un Dios que impone preceptos y pronuncia sentencias, de un Dios amo de casa, pater familias a la romana, necesitaba compensarse y completarse; y como en el fondo no podemos concebir al Dios personal y vivo, no ya por encima de rasgos humanos, mas ni aun por encima de rasgos varoniles, y menos un Dios neutro o hermafrodita, acudimos a darle un Dios femenino y junto al Dios Padre hemos puesto a la Diosa Madre, a la que perdona siempre, porque como mira con amor ciego, ve siempre el fondo de la culpa y en ese fondo la justicia única del perdón...»

A lo que debo ahora añadir que no sólo no podemos concebir al Dios vivo y entero como solamente varón, sino que no le podemos concebir como solamente individuo, como proyección de un yo solitario, fuera de sociedad, de un yo en realidad abstracto. Mi yo vivo es un yo que es en realidad un nosotros; mi yo vivo, personal, no vive sino en los demás, de los demás y por los demás yos; procedo de una muchedumbre de abuelos y en mí los llevo en extracto, y llevo a la vez en mí en potencia una muchedumbre de nietos, y Dios, proyección de mi yo al infinito—o más bien yo proyección de Dios a lo finito—, es también muchedumbre. Y de aquí, para salvar la personalidad de Dios, es decir, para salvar al Dios vivo, la necesidad de fe—esto es sentimental e imaginativa—de concebirle y sentirle con una cierta multiplicidad interna.


In one of my books, I put it thus: “In our minds, God was, and is still, masculine. His manner of judging and condemning people is that of a man, not a human personage that has transcended sex. He acts as a father. To balance him, there was need of a mother—the Mother, in fact, who always forgives, whose arms are ever open to the child fleeing the hand or face of the angry Father. The Mother in whose embrace we seek some dark remembrance of that warm peace of unconsciousness, the lack of awareness that came before the dawn of our active mind. The Mother whose milk soaked the dreams of our innocence. The Mother who knows no justice apart from forgiveness, no law but love. Our poor and imperfect conception of God as a man with huge beard and thundering voice—a god who imposes precepts and pronounces sentences, a master of the house like the Roman paterfamiliasdemands something to balance it and round it out. We were quite incapable of conceiving a personal and living god beyond human traits, beyond the realm where masculinity appears, and neuter or hermaphroditic divinity made even less sense to us, so we hastened to give our God his feminine counterpart, to place the Mother Goddess beside the Father God, where she extends her eternal forgiveness: for as she looks out with love that is blind, she sees always the depths of our every fault, and in those depths she witnesses the solitary justice of forgiveness ...” (The Life of Don Quixote & Sancho, 2.67).

To these reflections I must now add that just as we cannot conceive God living and whole as merely a man, so it is impossible for us to imagine him as merely or simply an individual, the projection of a solitary ego without any society, an ego really and truly abstract. My own ego, the I that I am, is in reality a we. My living and personal self does not actually live except as part of my society, and each self in that society is similarly bonded to its fellows. I proceed from an abundance of grandparents, whose being I carry extracted within my own, and right there with it I find in myself the potential being of myriad grandchildren. Whether we make God a projection of my own being into infinity, or more faithfully render myself as his projection into mortal finitude, he must also be a multitude, as I am. And so, to keep personality as a divine attributeto keep God as a living being, in other wordsour faith must necessarily feel and imagine him as possessing some kind of internal multitude or multiplicity.