Love & Death. Unamuno, Life 7.1

Unamuno begins his imagination of human life with love, which he finds tragic because of its necessary and intimate association with death. We must desire affiliation with others and ourselves, must love the world, if we are to survive. But the ultimate end of our love's expression is mortality: even if we embrace some belief in love beyond death's grasp, we must pass through death all the same. The love we must hold will lead us eventually to his sister and spouse, death.


Es el amor, lectores y hermanos míos, lo más trágico que en el mundo y en la vida hay; es el amor hijo del engaño y padre del desengaño; es el amor el consuelo en el desconsuelo, es la única medicina contra la muerte, siendo como es de ella hermana.

    Fratelli, a un tempo stesso, Amore e Morte
    Ingenerò la sorte,

como cantó Leopardi.

El amor busca con furia a través del amado, algo que está allende éste, y como no lo halla, se desespera.


Love is the most tragic thing that exists, readers and brothers of mine, in the world and in life. Love is the child of deceit, and the father of disenchantment. Love is comfort and discomfort, the only medicine we possess against death, since they are siblings. As Leopardi sang (†):

    Brethren! In this moment's room
    Love & Death conceived our doom.

Plunging deep into the persona of the beloved, love seeks furiously after something that lies beyond, and as it fails to find this, it despairs.


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(†) This quote comes from the opening stanza of Leopardi's twenty-seventh canto, written in Florence circa 1832, and published in Naples in 1835. The full poem is definitely worth reading, but it is quite long, so I give here only a taste:

Fratelli, a un tempo stesso, Amore e Morte
Ingenerò la sorte.
Cose quaggiù sì belle
Altre il mondo non ha, non han le stelle.
Nasce dall’uno il bene,
Nasce il piacer maggiore
Che per lo mar dell’essere si trova;
L’altra ogni gran dolore,
Ogni gran male annulla.

Brethren! In this moment's room
Love & Death conceived our doom.
Nothing brighter on this earth
Nor any realm the stars have birthed.
Love! He sows all goodly seed,
Each pleasure in the flooding sea
Where Being drowns mortality.
And as for Death: she takes our pain
Makes each evil naught again.