Face death without flinching. Seneca, Epistles 4.30.6-8
Seneca
discusses the way death affects us. In general, we flee her. Then,
confronted with the inevitable in some quick moment, we rush to close
and end things at once (like a cowardly gladiator, who would rather
live, but rushes to die quickly when escape is impossible). Not every
death will allow this, though. Some come slowly and wait, denying
every escape. These demand courage. We must face death, knowing her,
and not flinch. Such courage is the fruit of wisdom, Seneca says.
Ergo
inquit mors adeo extra omne
malum est ut sit extra omnem malorum metum. Haec ego scio
et saepe dicta et saepe dicenda, sed neque cum legerem aeque mihi
profuerunt neque cum audirem iis dicentibus qui negabant timenda a
quorum metu aberant: hic vero plurimum apud me auctoritatis habuit,
cum loqueretur de morte vicina. Dicam enim quid sentiam: puto
fortiorem esse eum qui in ipsa morte est quam qui circa mortem. Mors
enim admota etiam imperitis animum dedit non vitandi inevitabilia;
sic gladiator tota pugna timidissimus iugulum adversario praestat et
errantem gladium sibi attemperat. At illa quae in propinquo est
utique ventura desiderat lentam animi firmitatem, quae est rarior nec
potest nisi a sapiente praestari.
“Death
is so far beyond every mortal evil,” Bassus said, “that she is
also beyond every fear such evils inspire.” Sentiments like this
have often been uttered, I know, and indeed they demand utterance,
becoming cliché, but I have never taken any profit from them when
reading or hearing them in the mouths of people far removed from the
terror they affect to despise. Bassus had much more power over me,
because he spoke of death when she was near. I will tell you what I
feel: I believe that the man in death's grasp is stronger than the
one who has only just drawn near to her. The prospect of death gives
courage even to cowards, inspiring them to cease avoiding the
inevitable. In this fashion, the gladiator who has fled for an entire
fight finally presents his neck to the foe, whose wandering blade he
guides against himself. The death that stands close without closing
requires a different cast of mind than this, one that is tough, firm,
and quite hard to find―so rare that only the wise can reveal it.