Life & Death. Marcus Aurelius 4.50

Marcus reflects on the brevity of our mortal lives. Seeing events in proper perspective, as tiny moments in a lifespan dwarfed by the enormity of the universe, allows us to avoid becoming too emotionally committed to them, too angry or sad when they appear averse to us. The things that drive us toward emotional investment and passionate display (life) will eventually push us toward divestment and apathy (death). ὁδός ἄνω κάτω μία καὶ ὡυτή.


Ἰδιωτικὸν μέν, ὅμως δὲ ἀνυστικὸν βοήθημα πρὸς θανάτου καταφρόνησιν ἡ ἀναπόλησις τῶν γλίσχρως ἐνδιατριψάντων τῷ ζῆν. τί οὖν αὐτοῖς πλέον ἢ τοῖς ἀώροις; πάντως πού ποτε κεῖνται, Καιδικιανός, Φάβιος, Ἰουλιανός, Λέπιδος ἢ εἴ τις τοιοῦτος, οἳ πολλοὺς ἐξήνεγκαν, εἶτα ἐξηνέχθησαν· ὅλον, μικρόν ἐστι τὸ διάστημα καὶ τοῦτο δι’ ὅσων καὶ μεθ’ οἵων ἐξαντλούμενον καὶ ἐν οἵῳ σωματίῳ; μὴ οὖν ὡς πρᾶγμα· βλέπε γὰρ ὀπίσω τὸ ἀχανὲς τοῦ αἰῶνος καὶ τὸ πρόσω ἄλλο ἄπειρον. ἐν δὴ τούτῳ τί διαφέρει ὁ τριήμερος τοῦ τριγερηνίου;


It's a crazy thing, but repeating the actions required for life past the moment when they are spent produces an effective will to die, a contempt for death that makes it almost desirable. What separates timely attention to life's action from untimely? In the end, the moment comes when all must give up the ghost to lie down, somewhere. Caedicianus, Fabius, Julian, Lepidus (†), and others like them: they all carried many corpses forth in their time, until they were borne away on biers as corpses, too. The whole period of our lives is just a little moment, isn't it? A brief interval spent in such trite occupations and company, and in what a silly little body! In this light, how much more insignificant each particular event becomes. Look around you! Behind lies the yawning gulf of eternity, and before another boundless void. In the midst of such enormities, what matters whether we count three days or three hundred years? An ancient thrice again as old as Nestor (‡) looks just as young as a babe newborn.


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(†) I am not certain who these figures are, but I have some guesses (collected from the population of famous Romans who died old). Fabius might be Quintus Fabius Maximus Verrucosus Cunctator (c. 280-203 BCE), the general and dictator largely responsible for saving Rome from Hannibal during the second Punic war. Lepidus could be Marcus Aemilius Lepidus (c. 89-12 BCE), the triumvir whose alliance with Caesar made him a convenient colleague for Octavian and Mark Antony. Julian might be Lucius Octavius Cornelius Publius Salvius Julianus Aemilianus (c. 110-170 CE), a learned jurist who had a distinguished political career, serving several emperors on the privy council (consilium principis): Hadrian, Antoninus Pius, and Marcus Aurelius. Caedicianus is the hardest to guess, but inscriptions attest the political career (reaching as far as imperial legate to Dacia, and suffect consul at Rome) and property (pottery factories?) of one Quintus Aburnius Caedicianus, whom Marcus might have known, as the inscriptions mentioned put him in the early second century CE (before 150): see RE s.v. Aburnius §1.

() The wisest and oldest of the Greeks in the Iliad, who offers sage counsel to the heroes besieging Troy. Marcus refers to him here as the Gerenian, a title Homer gives him because of his upbringing in the town of Gerenia (also Gerena or Gerenus) in Messenia.