Know when to quit. Seneca, Epistles 3.22.5-8
Seneca
uses Epicurean and Stoic arguments to recommend escape from busywork.
Life is too short and precious to waste upon inanity.
Numquid
offenderis si in consilium non venio tantum sed advoco, et quidem
prudentiores quam ipse sum, ad quos soleo deferre si quid delibero?
Epicuri epistulam ad hanc rem pertinentem lege, Idomeneo quae
inscribitur, quem rogat ut quantum potest fugiat et properet,
antequam aliqua vis maior interveniat et auferat libertatem
recedendi. Idem tamen subicit nihil esse temptandum nisi cum apte
poterit tempestiveque temptari; sed cum illud tempus captatum diu
venerit, exsiliendum ait. Dormitare de fuga cogitantem vetat et
sperat salutarem etiam ex difficillimis exitum, si nec properemus
ante tempus nec cessemus in tempore.
Puto,
nunc et Stoicam sententiam quaeris.
Non
est quod quisquam illos apud te temeritatis infamet: cautiores quam
fortiores sunt. Exspectas forsitan
ut tibi haec dicant: turpe est
cedere oneri; luctare cum officio quod semel recepisti. Non est vir
fortis ac strenuus qui laborem fugit, nisi crescit illi animus ipsa
rerum difficultate. Dicentur tibi ista, si operae pretium
habebit perseverantia, si nihil indignum bono viro faciendum
patiendumve erit; alioqui sordido se et contumelioso labore non
conteret nec in negotiis erit negotii causa. Ne illud quidem quod
existimas facturum eum faciet, ut ambitiosis rebus implicitus semper
aestus earum ferat; sed cum viderit gravia in quibus volutatur,
incerta, ancipitia, referet pedem, non vertet terga, sed sensim
recedet in tutum.
Are
you going to be offended if I enlist others to counsel us, including
some more prudent than I, whose advice I am wont to consult whenever
I plan something? Read the letter Epicurus wrote to Idomeneus on this
subject, urging him to make as much haste as possible to get away
from employment, before some greater power intervene and carry
off his freedom of movement. He adds that no attempt to escape should
be made without proper regard to conditions and timing. When you have
hunted the right moment long enough to see it approach, then you must
leap for it, he says. He forbids us to dream of flight, to
contemplate or hope for a safe exit from affairs most perilous, if we
neglect to shift our butts before the moment of truth, or if we
refuse to give our business up when that moment arrives.
Now
you want to hear a Stoic opinion, I suppose. Nobody in your company
would accuse them of being too rash: they are over-cautious rather
than over-bold. But perhaps you are expecting them to say something
like this: “'Tis shameful to yield when life gets heavy. Wrestle
with the duty you have already received. The man strong and strenuous
does not flee hard labor; instead, his spirit rises with the
difficulty of the tasks he must confront.” These counsels belong
properly to work worth perseverance: they are for you only if you are
engaged in something deserving the action and patience of a good man.
In other business, the sordid kind that grinds, the good man will not
wear himself out; nor will he pursue business for its own sake. He
won't even do what you have reason to expect from him, if the only
outcome is that he gets to drown forever in the tides of ambition.
When he has ascertained the heaviness, uncertainty, and doubtful
outcome of the business in which he is involved, he will withdraw his
foot rather than give chase. He will not turn tail and run, like a
coward, but will make a steady retreat toward safety.