Outlive your names. Marcus Aurelius 4.33

Think carefully. Work with others. Don't cheat or be cheated. That's it, according to Marcus Aurelius. Making a name is not as important as living well, since all names are forgotten in time. Remember that your life is just one moment in the vastness of all life, and that every event in your life happens according to nature. Greet all events, even the hard ones, as part of your fate that you accept.


Αἱ πάλαι συνήθεις λέξεις γλωσσήματα νῦν· οὕτως οὖν καὶ τὰ ὀνόματα τῶν πάλαι πολυυμνήτων νῦν τρόπον τινὰ γλωσσήματά ἐστιν· Κάμιλλος, Καίσων, Οὐόλεσος, Δεντάτος, κατ’ ὀλίγον δὲ καὶ Σκιπίων καὶ Κάτων, εἶτα καὶ Αὔγουστος, εἶτα καὶ Ἁδριανὸς καὶ Ἀντωνῖνος· ἐξίτηλα γὰρ πάντα καὶ μυθώδη ταχὺ γίνεται, ταχὺ δὲ καὶ παντελὴς λήθη κατέχωσεν. καὶ ταῦτα λέγω ἐπὶ τῶν θαυμαστῶς πως λαμψάντων· οἱ γὰρ λοιποὶ ἅμα τῷ ἐκπνεῦσαι «ἄιστοι, ἄπυστοι». τί δὲ καὶ ἔστιν ὅλως τὸ ἀείμνηστον; ὅλον κενόν. τί οὖν ἐστι περὶ ὃ δεῖ σπουδὴν εἰσφέρεσθαι; ἓν τοῦτο· διάνοια δικαία καὶ πράξεις κοινωνικαὶ καὶ λόγος, οἷος μήποτε διαψεύσασθαι, καὶ διάθεσις ἀσπαζομένη πᾶν τὸ συμβαῖνον ὡς ἀναγκαῖον, ὡς γνώριμον, ὡς ἀπ’ ἀρχῆς τοιαύτης καὶ πηγῆς ῥέον.


Words once common are now so rare that we remember them only with the aid of a glossary. The same fate has befallen names belonging to heroes once celebrated in song: Camillus, Kaeso, Volesus, Dentatus, then Scipio and Cato, and more recently Augustus, Hadrian, and Antoninus (†). All these turn swiftly into empty ciphers, marks from myths we scarce remember, and then forgetfulness swallows them whole. I am describing the end of those whose worship shines brightest: the rest of humanity passes out of sight, out of mind the moment its last breath expires. What is the one thing whose memory endures forever? An utterly empty void. What then is worth our efforts here? Just this: a righteous mind, shared labors, and a sense of law that refuses all deceit. Also a disposition or frame of mind that greets every event we meet as something necessary and familiar, since it arises from the same origin and wellspring that produces us.


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(†) The final names in Marcus' list are from imperial times, including his own dynasty. Scipio and Cato are names from the latter days of the Roman republic, when Publius Cornelius Scipio (Africanus) defeated Hannibal at Zama (202 BCE) in close proximity to Utica, where Marcius Porcius Cato would commit suicide (46 BCE) after failing to save the republic from Caesar. The first set of names—(i) Camillus, (ii) Kaeso, (iii) Volesus, (iv) Dentatus—comes from Rome's earliest recorded history, the era of the early republic and before that the kings. (i) Marcus Furius Camillus (c. 446-365 BCE) was born into a family of Roman patricians originally from Tusculum, and pursued a career in the early republic with great success, leading Roman armies to victory against Etruscans, Gauls, and Latins. His victory over the Gallic troops of Brennus, who occupied Rome in the aftermath of the battle of the Allia (c. 387), earned him the title pater patriae. (ii) Kaeso (or Caeso) was a praenomen that more than one ancient Roman bore in early days, including Kaeso Fabius Vibulanus, a patrician of the early republic who perished with all the other adult males of the gens Fabia in the battle of the Cremera (477 BCE), against the Etruscans of Veii. (iii) The gens Valeria traced its lineage to one Volesus, a retainer in the court of the Sabine king Titus Tatius, who settled the Capitoline hill with his people in the aftermath of the legendary rape of the Sabine women (an episode from the era of Romulus, Rome's first king). Valerii (and others) bore the name Volesus thereafter, as late as the first century CE. (iv) Manius Curius (ob. 270 CE), the plebeian conqueror of the Samnites and of the Greek king Pyrrho, was called Dentatus ('toothed') because he was born with teeth already in his mouth.