Don't fail to commit. Seneca, Epistles 2.20.3-6
Life is better when you approach it consistently,
adopting attitudes that allow you to cultivate what you love and
avoid what you hate without second-guessing yourself all the time.
You will never see the fruits of long labor if you refuse to labor
long. Remember, as you pursue what you love, that its final flower
may not be what you imagined; that does not make it, or your love,
worthless.
Observa
te itaque, numquid vestis tua domusque dissentiant, numquid in te
liberalis sis, in tuos sordidus, numquid cenes frugaliter, aedifices
luxuriose; unam semel ad quam vivas regulam prende et ad hanc omnem
vitam tuam exaequa. Quidam se domi contrahunt, dilatant foris et
extendunt: vitium est haec diversitas et signum vacillantis animi ac
nondum habentis tenorem suum. Etiam nunc dicam unde sit ista
inconstantia et dissimilitudo rerum consiliorumque: nemo proponit
sibi quid velit, nec si proposuit perseverat in eo, sed transilit;
nec tantum mutat sed redit et in ea quae deseruit ac damnavit
revolvitur. Itaque ut relinquam definitiones sapientiae veteres et
totum complectar humanae vitae modum, hoc possum contentus esse: quid
est sapientia? semper idem velle atque idem nolle. Licet illam
exceptiunculam non adicias, ut rectum sit quod velis; non potest enim
cuiquam idem semper placere nisi rectum. Nesciunt ergo homines quid
velint nisi illo momento quo volunt; in totum nulli velle aut nolle
decretum est; variatur cotidie iudicium et in contrarium vertitur ac
plerisque agitur vita per lusum. Preme ergo quod coepisti, et
fortasse perduceris aut ad summum aut eo quod summum nondum esse
solus intellegas.
Watch
yourself then, lest your clothing betray faults that your housing
denies; lest you prove generous towards yourself but stingy to
others, prudent at table but not when building your estate. Take just
one rule to live by, and measure your entire life according to its
standard. Some men contain themselves at home only to let loose and
run riot abroad: this inconsistency is vicious, a sign that the mind
wavers without yet holding a course. I will tell you right now the
origin of such incontinence and incongruence in our affairs and
plans: nobody infected with it admits to himself what he wants, and
if he does manage to admit a goal, then he fails to persevere in what
he has chosen, skipping from one thing to another instead. Nor is he
content merely to change interests: always he returns to what he has
deserted and condemned in the past, whirling about the same futile
tasks without achieving any end. Thus, if I were to leave behind
ancient definitions of wisdom and put the entire sum of human life
into one new method, I would be content with the following. What
is wisdom? To have wants and dislikes fixed, so that we consistently
desire and avoid the same things. No fair making little
exceptions for yourself, the kind that allow you to affirm the momentary
rectitude of some passing desire. Only the really good things manage
to please constantly. In the heat of the moment, men know nothing but
fleeting desires, amongst which they find no firm decree to fix their
fickle taste. Hence their judgment changes daily, wandering from one
contradiction to another, and most waste their life playing pointless
games. Press forward then, on the pathway you have already begun, and
perhaps you shall achieve its summit, which need not lie where you
think it does in this moment.