Blessed poverty. Seneca, Epistles 2.20.7-8
Seneca
advises Lucilius to be content with life in its most minimal and
personal expressions. Poverty that does not damage our health is
actually preferable to wealth, as it allows us to make real friends
and avoid wasting precious time with people who don't actually care for
us.
Quid
fiet inquis huic turbae familiarium sine re familiari? Turba
ista cum a te pasci desierit, ipsa se pascet, aut quod tu beneficio
tuo non potes scire, paupertatis scies: illa veros certosque amicos
retinebit, discedet quisquis non te se aliud sequebatur. Non est
autem vel ob hoc unum amanda paupertas, quod a quibus ameris
ostendet? O quando ille veniet dies quo nemo in honorem tuum
mentiatur! Huc ergo cogitationes tuae tendant, hoc cura, hoc opta,
omnia alia vota deo remissurus, ut contentus sis temet ipso et ex te
nascentibus bonis. Quae potest esse felicitas propior? Redige te ad
parva ex quibus cadere non possis, idque ut libentius facias, ad hoc
pertinebit tributum huius epistulae, quod statim conferam.
"What
shall happen," you ask, "to my crowd of friends and family,
if I lose mine estate?" When that crowd ceases to eat at your
table, it will have to feed itself. Then you will learn from poverty
what you cannot know in wealth: she will reveal your true and
steadfast friends, as those who followed you for something apart from
yourself abandon your company. Is this benefit not enough, on its
own, to recommend affection for poverty, the fact that she shows by
whom you are loved? O blessed day, when none shall pay homage to your
honor with lies! Let all your
thoughts turn to this one thing:
that you should be content with yourself, and the goods that arise
from you. Choose this. Nurture it. Send all other things away,
offering them back to the gods.
What happiness is there greater or nearer to us than this? Drive
yourself back to the small things, the little standing from which you
cannot fall. The aphorism I offer as tribute in this epistle will
help you do this more pleasantly. I
shall bestow it upon you now.