Shun distemper. Seneca, Epistles 2.18.14-15
How
do we handle anger? Check it, always. Control the mind, not the
world, so that you avoid unnecessary fevers.
Sed
iam incipiamus epistulam complicare.
Prius inquis
redde
quod debes. Delegabo
te ad Epicurum, ab illo fiet numeratio:
immodica ira gignit insaniam. Hoc
quam verum sit necesse est scias, cum habueris et servum et inimicum.
In omnes personas hic exardescit affectus; tam ex amore nascitur quam
ex odio, non minus inter seria quam inter lusus et iocos; nec
interest ex quam magna causa nascatur sed in qualem perveniat animum.
Sic ignis non refert quam magnus sed quo incidat; nam etiam maximum
solida non receperunt, rursus arida et corripi facilia scintillam
quoque fovent usque in incendium. Ita est, mi Lucili: ingentis irae
exitus furor est, et ideo ira vitanda est non moderationis causa sed
sanitatis. Vale.
But
it is time for us to begin wrapping this letter up. “First, pay off
your debt!” you say. I will refer you to Epicurus, who has your
coin: “Left unchecked, anger gives birth to insanity.” You
must know
the truth of this saying well, since your life includes servants and
enemies. Anger is always kindling in all people. It arises as much
from love as hatred, and infects us in serious affairs no less
readily than among games and jokes. What matters in its birth is not
any external circumstance, but the quality of the mind that it
invades. Anger is like fire in this: it does not matter how great it
is, but where it strikes. Dense matter will not receive a flame,
though it blazes as high and hot as can be, while dry kindling
nurtures even a tiny spark until it becomes a roaring fire. That is
the way things are, Lucilius. The outcome of a mighty anger is a
raving fever, and so anger should be shunned not merely for the sake
of temperance, but for the sake of our health. Farewell.