Making decisions. Marcus Aurelius 3.6

Marcus Aurelius illustrates his decison-making process. Notice that it does not demand consensus, favorable outcomes, or control. The point is to make a decision you can bear, personally, and then prepare your mind to bear the consequences, whatever they are.

Εἰ μὲν κρεῖττον εὑρίσκεις ἐν τῷ ἀνθρωπίνῳ βίῳ δικαιοσύνης, ἀληθείας, σωφροσύνης, ἀνδρείας καὶ καθάπαξ τοῦ ἀρκεῖσθαι ἑαυτῇ τὴν διάνοιάν σου, ἐν οἷς κατὰ τὸν λόγον τὸν ὀρθὸν πράσσοντά σε παρέχεται, καὶ ἐν τῇ εἱμαρμένῃ ἐν τοῖς ἀπροαιρέτως ἀπονεμομένοις· εἰ τούτου, φημί, κρεῖττόν τι ὁρᾷς, ἐπ᾽ ἐκεῖνο ἐξ ὅλης τῆς ψυχῆς τραπόμενος τοῦ ἀρίστου εὑρισκομένου ἀπόλαυε. εἰ δὲ μηδὲν κρεῖττον φαίνεται αὐτοῦ τοῦ ἐνιδρυμένου ἐν σοὶ δαίμονος, τάς τε ἰδίας ὁρμὰς ὑποτεταχότος ἑαυτῷ καὶ τὰς φαντασίας ἐξετάζοντος καὶ τῶν αἰσθητικῶν πείσεων, ὡς ὁ Σωκράτης ἔλεγεν, ἑαυτὸν ἀφειλκυκότος καὶ τοῖς θεοῖς ὑποτεταχότος ἑαυτὸν καὶ τῶν ἀνθρώπων προκηδομένου· εἰ τούτου πάντα τὰ ἄλλα μικρότερα καὶ εὐτελέστερα εὑρίσκεις, μηδενὶ χώραν δίδου ἑτέρῳ, πρὸς ὃ ῥέψας ἅπαξ καὶ ἀποκλίνας οὐκέτι ἀπερισπάστως τὸ ἀγαθὸν ἐκεῖνο, τὸ ἴδιον καὶ τὸ σόν, προτιμᾶν δυνήσῃ. ἀντικαθῆσθαι γὰρ τῷ λογικῷ καὶ πολιτικῷ ἀγαθῷ οὐ θέμις οὐδ᾽ ὁτιοῦν ἑτερογενές, οἷον τὸν παρὰ τῶν πολλῶν ἔπαινον ἢ ἀρχὰς ἢ πλοῦτον ἢ ἀπολαύσεις ἡδονῶν· πάντα ταῦτα, κἂν πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐναρμόζειν δόξῃ, κατεκράτησεν ἄφνω καὶ παρήνεγκεν. σὺ δέ, φημί, ἁπλῶς καὶ ἐλευθέρως ἑλοῦ τὸ κρεῖττον καὶ τούτου ἀντέχου· «κρεῖττον δὲ τὸ συμφέρον.» εἰ μὲν τὸ ὡς λογικῷ, τοῦτο τήρει· εἰ δὲ τὸ ὡς ζῴῳ, ἀπόφηναι, καὶ ἀτύφως φύλασσε τὴν κρίσιν· μόνον ὅπως ἀσφαλῶς τὴν ἐξέτασιν ποιήσῃ.

If you discover in human life something more powerful than justice, truth, prudence, courage, and the ability of your own mind to defend itself resolutely in every deed it pursues by right reason, against the onslaughts of fickle fate—if you see anything mightier than this, deliver your entire soul over to it, showing proper appreciation for your discovery of the best thing there is. But if nothing seems stronger to you than the spirit that dwells within, that subdues your intimate impulses and puts your fantasies to scrutiny, dragging the self away from its perceptions, as Socrates said, subjecting it to the gods and taking thought for other folk—if you find all other things, all other positions, smaller and cheaper than this one, then yield it to no one. Turn to it yourself once and forever, never drifting away, and you will be able to pay homage to a noble thing, one that is unique and that belongs only to you. For it is not right that your rational and political faculty be checked by something alien to itself, such as the praise of the multitude, or sovereignty, or wealth, or delight in pleasures. All these things, even when they seem slightly to agree with the best part of yourself, have conquered and subjected it to themselves. Your role, I say, is to choose what is better alone, acting simply and freely, and then hold this maxim: "Whatever happens is better." If something is happening to you in a situation that demands reasons, watch your reasoning closely; if your decision concerns animal life, declare it, and await the outcome untroubled by illusions. Only thus will you pass muster safely.